Family Matters

It is disappointing that I have to be writting this again. But nothing beats what happened last Sunday in the ward. It is funny how your dad threatened to hit my sister AND saying those hurtful things to my mom and you know what's funnier? The words that came out from your mouth. I see now, clearly, what we are to you people.


Do not even start telling me about Chinese tradition and the "regulations" you uphold in the family. Do not even start on me being English educated and not knowing about "what's right or wrong".
My mom, is as much as a daughter as your dad is a son and we are EVERY INCH the grand children as you are to our grandma. Why? What's the difference here? That we should condone and respect your every single act just because you are older even if it's outright wrong and worse still, hurting my family? It's such a joke to even say it out loud.


You talk about mending broken family ties. May I ask, with what exactly? With your dad treating my mom like this? With you condoning to your dad's actions by yelling at my sis that its not her turn to speak? If this is your said "Chinese tradition" or "Lee tradition", then let me tell you that I uphold respect and integrity; which is definitely not in the context of your said "Chinese tradition" or "Lee tradition".


I do not think that I need to highlight again, that my highest respect stands with my mom but apparently, the message did not get across the last time.

Nothing needs to be said anymore between us 2 families. I do not think the damage can be undone.

If you have thought, that it is your responsibility to lead the family by forming bridges and bringing the family together, and if you can't do it nor are you mending the situation but making it worse, might I suggest that maybe you should not even try leading in the first place.


FYI: Let's talk about your kind of respect, say, by chucking grandma onto our table during your wedding dinner and refuse her of the right to sit on the main table? I beg to differ, that it is NOT the kind of respect I or any other family members, uphold.

Drama eh?